Reflecting


I know that this was a MAJOR post night but after a long trip home and a week full of memories and being with family I had to post my feelings as I flew home on Monday. I was looking out the window and noticed the beautiful clouds among the sky and then looking down could see the ground. I couldnt help but think that the view I was seeing must be some what like Heavenly Father's view as he looks down upon me and you and watches and guides us to be the daughter/sons of god that he wants us to be.

My highschool experience wasnt the best and I had to deal with loosing friends due to me not drinking and smoking. I never was asked to dances by guys because I wasnt going to party before the dance and then I wasnt going to spread my legs later that after the dance. I felt at times so alone and a weirdo as I was one of just a few Mormons in my class and highschool. As I saw many people that I grew up with and guys that I knew in highschool this weekend I was quite surprised to what they had to say to me.

The first questions out of their mouth to me was 1. That is water in your cup right? You still dont drink right??!! 2. No smoking, caffeine, and swearing right?? and 3. You are still the same Karmann that I knew in Highschool right, the same strong mormon?? Of course I am I would say back to them and then a smile would come across their face. They then would say Oh good, cause I would be so upset if you were someone different. I couldnt beleive it!! They then would say, I admired you so much in highschool for your standards. I admire you even more now for being the same person as you were back then. I was in shock. I would have never thought that they had felt that way especially how I was treated and looked at.

I walked away thankful for being strong and being able to be that example of our Savior and that I know I was strong during those times because I had Heavenly Father watching over me and helping me be the person he needed me to be. As I wait with faith for other things to fall into place for me, I am so thankful for the trials and the things that I have experienced in my life for it has given me a greater appreciation of the Plan of Salvation and how this truly is a test and we are here to prove ourselves worthy to return to him.

Comments

D'On Marx said…
Wow! I can feel the spirit just flow from your words. You are a great example to the people you went to school with and you are definitely a great example to me. Thanks for being a good friend.
Becky aka tata! said…
WOW! You have had a whirlwind few weeks! It looks like you had a great time. I can't begin to tell you how sad I am that we didn't get to see you. (My sister and her girls got the junk too.)

I must say I LOVE who you are and what you stand for. I love the spirit that fills my soul when I read your words.

LOVE YA BUNCHES!!!!
Deanna said…
That is so cool that you had the opportunity and the courage to be an example to people around you especially when you probably felt like you were standing alone sometimes!
It sounds like you had a fun trip! See ya soon!
Heather Ridge said…
Thanks for sharing. I love hearing of the strength people have when they standout morally because of their faith. That is awesome. I don't think I would have been as strong as you. Reading this makes me realize that I can do better.
michael said…
Karmen,

That is the greatest city in the world.

Thanks for checking out our blog. I know you and Ryan will be blessed with children soon.
Kirsten said…
Karm you rock even though you smell at times :). I love hearing your testimony. We never know who's watching us and what they are thinking right! You are a good example to me and I love your guts!
Elder Jake Zebe said…
You've had a great time! You are just adorable and reading your blog makes me miss you more and more! I feel blessed to know you!
Wow Karmman, you are amazing!
Julie said…
What beautiful words! I can totally relate to the whole high school experience you had - it's hard being the only member in your school in a place like Chicago! It's too bad we didn't live closer and could go to the same school. I'm glad you were able to see how your good example affected those around you!
Jo Lynn said…
I love the revolving toilet seat covers, I said the same thing as I went into the restroom. LOL I also loved your picture of the L, I have so many memories of Chi town. Karm, that is so good to hear how everyone reacted to you still being you. I felt the same way in high school, getting teased and what not to only find out how much they admired my morals. I'm proud of you and what an experience. I'm glad you got to spend so much time with family and old friends. I loved reading about your adventures to Chicago and Vegas, that was so sweet of you to surprise your YW! Love ya
Drake Family said…
Karm,
I haven't been to your site in a while, or anyone's for that matter..sorry. Where to begin? Can I just tell you how much I love you? You are such an inspiration to everyone and I wish I can be as strong as you are someday. You were such a good roomie, even when you SMEARED YOUR HAIR ALL OVER THE SHOWER. haha. Anyway...enough cheese, that is ore your thing anyway! That is crazy that you went to your 10 year reunion! Has it really been that long and are we really that old now? Mine was this summer too but I decided not to go because I knew it would be a bunch of drunks who wouldn't even remember that I was there. Too bad Ryan couldn't have been there with you. Anyway babe, I bet I could keep commenting but I better leave room for others! :) Love ya babe!!!
Drake Family said…
P.S. Never heard of a revolving toilet seat cover...that is CRAZY! Thanks for making sure the toilet was empty though...no peaches!
sunshine said…
that's awesome karm. you are an inspiration to us all.
alison huston said…
That was an awesome post. Your even an example to those around you that are mormon. You have a strong bright spirit that radiates to all around you.

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